- Candace Chambers-Belida
32 Ways To Make Him Fall Madly in Love With You!
Yes It is possible for a Man to Fall Head over Heels for You!
1. BE THE AUTHENTIC YOU
What else can you be than who you really are. Introduce the Real You and Not your Representative.
2. ACCEPT HIM AS HE IS
The worst thing that a Woman can do, is to think that she can Change a Man, that she is able to teach him how he can be a Man. Let him be who is and just be a partner in making him a Better Man.
3. HONESTY
Nothing worst than a relationship that does not have honesty and truth, this should be the foundation which the relationship is based on.
4. DON'T CHASE
Number one assurance of losing a man, is to chase after him. It is in a Man's DNA to Chase and a Woman's DNA to run, (just not so fast) that she can't be caught.
5. DON'T NAG
Like a dripping faucet is a woman that nags, the quickest way to send a man out the door is to nag a man to death. A man only needs a few words to get the job done, after awhile too many words and nagging, a man will shut down and completely ignore what the woman is saying.
6. LAUGH AND HAVE FUN
Laughter is the vitality in the the relationship, don't get so busy that you don't have time to enjoy one another, Laughter and Joy is the greatest time out you can have to give true attention to one another.
7. SHARE HIS INTEREST
It is about him sometimes, he may like sports and you don't, well it import to share what he likes and who knows you may end up loving what he likes, being a participant in his likes speaks volumes to his heart.
8. BE HIS BIGGEST SUPPORTER
Yes he may have a crazy ideal like a mad scientist, but you need to be his biggest supporter and encouraging him to at least try his endeavors, who knows it could be a complete winner. So don't shoot your man down, before he even gets out the door. Let him be your Hero.
9. BE CONFIDENT
Men love women that are not needy, and that are co-dependent, but rather they do love a woman that shines with confidence and assurance. For them, there is nothing more sexier.
10. DON'T BE JEALOUS
Just like a woman scorn jealously is a poison, it can literally destroy a relationship with a vengeance. Don't be jealous of who he is, the money he makes, his past, his friends and the women in his life including his mother. Just be confident that if he is with you that's truly where he wants to be.
11. BE SPONTANEOUS
Reckless Abandon and spontaneity is a wonderful surprise of life and makes life an adventure.
12. KEEP INTIMACY ALIVE
Passion Passion Passion, really who could get enough of this wonderful gift of pleasure. Its important that making love and having passion is a internal part of the relationship its like spiritual glue in the relationship when two people mesh together as one.
13. BE A TEAM PLAYER
Being a team player doesn't mean that you have to always be the leader, or the boss in the relationship, it simply means being a partaker and enjoying the process of working together for the common goals and projects.
14. LEARN SPORTS
Why not learn sports, the rules the plays and be with him as a buddy when he is watching his sports and games. No pretense, learn the games.
15.DON'T BE BOSSY
Ugh! The Worst of Course is a Bossy Woman, we've all been in the presence of this type of woman, she seems to always be angry, demanding, and rude. She always dumps on you her own expectations and demands. There is nothing about this woman that is appealing or desired.
16.DON'T KEEP RECORDS OF WRONGS
So don't keep your journal or note pad of right and wrongs that you have at your disposal when you seem to need them. Keeping records of wrongs, shows that there is no true forgiveness and that the wrongs are now being used as an arsenal of weapons. This is an absolute NO-NO. Let it go and move on.
17.KEEP YOUR INTIMACY PRIVATE
You don't need to tell your friends about the details of your private intimate secrets. Sometimes these things not only come back to bite you in the butt, but keeping personal information private, must stay just that Private.
18.DON'T COMPARE TO YOUR EX
Comparing you EX is to your own demise, if your ex was so great, why is he your ex. Starting over is a new beginning, don't carry your baggage of the past into a new relationship. Each relationship has its own reward.
19. DON'T PLAY GAMES
The last things a relationship needs is games, especially games that use manipulation, lying and deceit to coerce a situation or an emotion. You don't play or tease with one another feelings to one hurt.
20. DRESS BEAUTIFULLY
True Pleaser is to be beautifully adorned not necessarily in an expensive manner but just looking your absolute best by being put together, clean, groomed and fragrant, leave shabbiness at the door.
21. DON'T FLIRT WITH HIS FRIENDS
Some women think if they flirt with their man's friends, he will find her more desirable, on the contrary he will just kick her to the curb much quicker.
22. HAVE ETIQUETTE
Manners is a plus, elegance and etiquette go hand in hand. No one wants to be around a woman that eats like she's at a feeding trough. Put on manners in the way you walk, talk and eat.
lady-like behavior has never lost its power.
23.DON'T ARGUE AND FIGHT
Some folks love to argue, they get a thrill out of arguing, they love to dance around in jubilation in an argument and fight. However, its best not to kindle a fire. A little spark can turn into an inferno.
24.DON'T ASSUME WHAT THE OTHER IS THINKING
Why oh Why do we think that we can read another person's thoughts and feelings. This is the number one mistake that most couples make, in thinking that they know what the other is thinking. Majority of the time those assumptions are often dead wrong.
25.GIVE THE RELATIONSHIP TIME
Don't be in a hurry to get to the alter that you put pressure on the relationship, its important that you take the time of getting to know one another without strain.
26. DON'T BE A GOLD-DIGGER
Being in a relationship for money is a sold out soul. When you are only in the relationship for what you can get, and not what you can give is a road leading to disaster.
27. DON'T DEMAND YOUR WAY
Me Myself and I, is the opposite of having a loving giving relationship between two people. You have to be interested in the success of the other and the relationship. Its about both parties involved.
28. BE POSITIVE
Having a positive attitude is everything, a negative attitude make an atmosphere toxic. To have joy is a positive attitude that breathes life into a relationship.
29.BE ADVENTOUROUS
Being his counterpart in adventure has its own just rewards. Its good to be game, to try new things that will help enhance the relationship.
30.PUT HIM BEFORE OTHERS
You want him to be first, yet you put your family, friends before him. This is a time bomb waiting to explode. Your Man is Your Man and he must be first, and you as well must be first in his life. Not doing this creates real problems in the relationship.
31.DON'T TELL HIS SECRETS
Some secrets are only for the one you trust. Its hard for some people to share their utmost private secrets in the first place, in doing so they want you to be their confidant and to share those things is suicide to the relationship. Keep The Secret, Keep the Bond, and Mostly Keep your Mouth Shut. Its an honor he trusted you with his Secret in the First Place and vice versa.
32. DON'T BE REVENGEFUL
So he did something you didn't like, so you want to get even, and pay him back. Ask yourself this question, will it make the relationship better, or destroy it. Its best to forgive and over look the offense and move on. Love covers all wrongs.